Vengence

I think everyone has felt vengeance many times throughout their life. It is a feeling that everyone will go through more than once. If someone does something bad to you on purpose, then your going to want to get vengeance on them. Revenge is not good. Every one will feel the need to get revenge on someone if that person has wronged the other, but it should be avoided at all costs. It is human nature to want to get even at someone if they have hurt you in some way. There are two options if you are feeling vengeance/revenge. You can either let your emotions control your self, or you can control you emotions and be the bigger man. I think the latter option is the best one. It is not always easy to just let something go but this is the best thing you can do. Nothing good can happen if you retaliate on someone. This might feel like the best option at the time, but you will probably end up getting in more trouble than the other person. Even though I know this I am sure that I will retaliate sometime in the near future. It is very hard not to. I find that I can control it sometimes if it is not a big dead. But if someone really makes me mad, I will find it necessary to get vengeance on that person if they have really angered me. I do not think that I personally would do any thing bad to someone if I was getting revenge on them. I definitely would not do anything worse to the other person than what they have done to me. Sometimes I can control myself though and I find that it is usually better when I do. People will learn to respect you more if you try to be the bigger man and do not retaliate. Ill be the first to admit that it is not easy, but you will feel much better about yourself if you do.